@vienne - what? You clearly haven’t been a JW. I was threatened with DF’ing for having a ‘worldly’ girlfriend. Later on, during my second divorce, they tried to DF me again as I was having several worldly girlfriends at the same time, they followed me to collect ‘proof’. Hell, during my first divorce, I was counseled for having a JW girlfriend ‘too soon’ and we were told to break it off, just because it could reflect poorly on the congregation.
Yes, having a worldly relationship is a reason for disfellowshipping, it’s in the secret elder manual that people that ignore or reject the counsel of elders or what the WTBTS says on ANY matter is a disfellowshipping offense, it is clearly implied if not outright written in various publications that dating or marrying an unbeliever is ‘ignoring’ or ‘rejecting’ the WTBTS.
w89 11/1 p. 18-19 - Nevertheless, the Bible’s counsel is clear: ‘Do not yoke yourselves with unbelievers.’ … To marry an unbeliever is to ignore Scriptural counsel (and there are other publications)
the old YPA book said young people may rebel by having a worldly girlfriend/boyfriend, that was the book I was counseled from by the elders when I was 18, that publication doesn’t seem to be online anymore, but people that ‘studied’ it can tell you all kinds of stuff that wasn’t allowed (and they weren’t shy about the sexual stuff either).
w61: being willfully rebellious…, disfellowshiping from the congregation may be the only course
ypq: Jessica says, “I knew what I had to do.” Was breaking up easy? No! “This was the only boy I had ever really liked,” Jessica says. “I cried every day for several weeks.” Yet, Jessica knew something else—that she loved Jehovah and that although she had got sidetracked, she truly wanted to do what was right.